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We are going to decide how to live in peace. Thanks so much for visiting..please add any comments you feel are relevant and poignant.. I would love to hear from people out there who have no idea why they are in the mess they are in. I am not technical , I am not arrogant and think I know it all. I have been through hell and back and have done some major research - That is the only difference in regards to insight.. Life is fair game , we all live it and we all have our own experiences .. IT would be great if we could put it all together and make a great website based in reality and truth.

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I am a 911 operator, I have been doing shiftwork for almost 20 years now. I have been through 2 divorces. I am a passionate person. I have dealt with stress in my life 10 fold. I did not know how to deal with it. It cost me my mental and physical health. I have learned through numerous methods how to live with stress. It is hard , very hard. I really want to help people to live their lives to their fullest potential. I have taken several courses on stress therapy and meditation. That only gives me the basics though , I have lived through it and came out on top.. I hope we can help each other.

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My daughter and  myself
this is NOT stressful .

Thursday, May 14, 2009

what is tension ?

When you see a small baby, you can see only love, trust and curiousity. Their responses to stimuli are pure, because they have had no conditioning otherwise. A baby is usually trusting,fearless and completely relaxed. There are two instincitive fears we are born with however, the fear of fire and loud noises.

As we grow older we obtain memories and experiences , some of them not pleasing.
The darker memories can affect our emotional , psychological and physical well-being.Some of the experiences can create mild reactions..Whereas others can be so traumatic and haunting, that they affect the balance of EVERY aspect of our lives. These reactions cause us to obtain levels of tension throughout our bodies. That is what promotes the serious psychological and physical diseases.


The memories of these traumatic events cause us to feel we have to protect ourselves from further pain .. therefore we build up a large amount of tension.

The body has a way of memorizing and storing events , this creates bad posture,and promotes habitual behavior , ( addictive personalities) .
These imprints will stay with us until we CONSCIOUSLY change them

This is similar to the way we store our data in our hard drive . The only way to change it is to reprogram it .

Our body/mind storage can be viewed as a database , however our database has the ablility to be aware of this storage recepticle and then to choose the best way to correct or change the damaged data ,so to speak .

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